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Post by aurryinne on Feb 15, 2011 23:51:33 GMT -7
This has been bothering me for awhile, and I wanted to ask if the mistakes I keep making when I respond or react caused by low EQ?
I know some things are simply because
1. I wasn't informed, or incorrectly informed and my ignorance is showing
2. Me reacting according to an invisible rule in my head that I learned early on in my (very sheltered) life, that might not be completely up-to-date, or even valid, in the situational context
3. I feel I've seen the person or the screen name around long enough to let down my guard and be rather less circumspect, and the sudden pseudo-disappearance of shyness makes me appear crazy
4. (This occurs seldom, but still often enough, especially IRL, to cause some severe, category 9 mess ups) Based on my culture, I'm expected to..., but based on American culture, I'm not expected to...
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Post by Jenn on Feb 17, 2011 13:24:13 GMT -7
Honestly? I've never had anything that hasn't been a simple miscommunication, usually through wording. ^_^ Never had any problems with the Rynnie. <3
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Post by iprince on Feb 17, 2011 14:40:20 GMT -7
I haven't had any problems with you at all. I know you ask a lot of questions, but I totally encourage that, and I've never had any difficulty understanding what you're asking.
If I'm not communicating well enough, just prod me in the ribs. C: I know language barriers can be a bitch.
But, yeah, so far so good!
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Post by ferabird on Feb 17, 2011 15:21:48 GMT -7
I've had not a problem in the world with you, hon. <3
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Post by aurryinne on Feb 19, 2011 1:05:02 GMT -7
I'm glad you have no problem communicating with me. Let me put this differently, do you have trouble getting along with me?
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Post by iprince on Feb 19, 2011 10:09:47 GMT -7
Ohmygoodness, absolutely not. I've found you to be an amazing member, and I'm very happy that you're part of the ML community.
And, as I said before, I know you ask a lot of questions but I encourage that. Asking questions makes me a happy Mem!
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Post by ferabird on Feb 20, 2011 19:20:49 GMT -7
And we do so love a happy Memmers :3
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